or why fake dicks totally rock!
It’s a clincal fact that women require longer to achieve an orgasm. One might think this a cruel trick of nature but it’s actually a blessing. Women can have multiple, powerful orgasms. In fact, we have another wonderful gift, the clitoris, a tiny organ capable of giving wave upon wave of pleasure. While men can have multiple orgasm it’s much more difficult for them and takes a lot of self-discipline.
There are several reasons every woman should own a vibrator. But what it all boils down to is allowing yourself to explore your own body. One of the most awkward parts about sex is discovering what gives us the most pleasure. The human body, while following the same pattern, never achieves sexual pleasure the same way. For women, the vibrator can provide a way to explore our sexuality. And, just in case you aren’t convinced, here’s some more reasons:
1) A fake cock never shoots its load and rolls over. Thankfully, many men are aware of how important foreplay is to women’s sexual satisfication. But, however enlightened individual men can be, the sex industry is still centered on men’s sexual satisfaction first and foremost. Women are often presented as objects waiting to worship a man’s cock. But a cock – however glorious it is – is designed for one, final climax. A woman’s sexual exploration requires time. A vibrator doesn’t have a time limit or even its own sexual agenda. Using a vibrator means being completely selfish without any judgement.
2) No Directions Required – Another awkward aspect of sex is telling our partner what to do. While open communication is always essential, giving directions can turn love making into an overly complicated, clincal procedure. Unfortunately, knowing what we want can be difficult to figure out. Using a vibrator allows a woman to decide exactly how hard or how soft she wants it and what angles work for her. She can explore herself in a safe place without feeling any pressure to perform for her partner. She doesn’t need to worry about his sexual satisfaction, only her own.
3) The G spot – There is some controversy as to whether the G spot is real. Some women report powerful orgasms when a tiny spot located halfway between a woman’s vaginal opening and uretha is stimulated. Scientists aren’t sure whether the G spot is an extension of the clitoris or simply thicker tissue. I can say from personal experience there is a “sweet spot” when it comes to vaginal stimulation. But finding it can take hours, sometimes over multiple sessions. There are vibrators diesigned specefically for G spot stimulation. But they tend to be on the pricier side. Keep in mind that even a regular vibrator can be useful.
Before buying a vibrator take these tips into consideration.
- Orgasms can be more powerful when accompanied by clitoral stimulation. The best vibrator for clitoral and vaginal stimulation is the jackrabit. This vibrator has tiny ears which vibrate in addition to a dildo and expandable pearls.
- Decide what size you are most comfortable with. Some websites offer sets of vibrators ranging in size. Experiment with different sizes. You may find a smaller vibrator is more comfortable in the beginning, while you are warming up. Experiment with different speeds.
- Vibrators can be used to create a sense of adventure. Look for a waterproof model. Use it in the shower or tub after a hard day. You can even purchase a dildo that mounts on your shower wall! Satisfy any kink with the right toy.
Are you running out the door yet? Firing up your internet browser? Well, if you aren’t, go! Remember, higher end vibrators like the jackrabbt can cost up to $60. The simplest vibrator can cost around $20. I highly recommend the jackrabit. It’s worth saving up for.
